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Cake day: July 25th, 2023

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  • It sounds like you were distressed and left because you didn’t know what to do or how to help.

    That’s empathy. Feeling uncomfortable when you see people in pain is empathy. And it’s normal. It’s normal for you to feel distressed around her as you hear her account. It’s normal to want to leave. It’s normal to feel guilty about leaving. It’s normal to wonder if you could have done more to help catch the bastard.

    This is awful. What you just saw is awful. What you just experienced is legitimately uncomfortable.

    And it’s hard for people to wrap their heads around, because how could your pain be valid when it’s a response to seeing someone in “real” pain? How could your pain be important when it’s nothing more than the faint echo of the pain you’re witnessing someone else go through?

    But it hurts. As selfish as it feels to hurt at a time like this, it still hurts.






  • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.onetoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhy did you vote for Biden?
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    10 months ago

    But now I live in Nevada. I will be voting for Biden because

    • the CHIPS Act is going to put chip manufacturing at the mercy of union labor
      • and with the solidarity whipped up by places like Antiwork? It’s going to be a bloodbath.
    • his bans on slave labor solar panel imports will do the same thing. Union laborers won’t need to compete with slave owners.
    • he halted ICE worksite immigration raids, which were basically used to terrorize migrant workers and keep them complacent (hence lowering their wages, and by extension, lowering the market price of labor)
    • he “played the long game” and helped win rail workers those sick days they were fighting for.
    • he kept student loan payments paused for the first 33 months of his term and tried to get a decent chunk forgiven
    • he appointed trust-busting advocate Lina Kahn to the FTC, where she is now a chairwoman
    • he appointed pro-labor lawyer Jennifer Abruzzo to the NLRB, where she recently set an anti-union-busting precedent that, according to Harold Meyerson at Prospect.org, “makes union organizing possible again”

    He’s silently, steadily, baby-stepping us in the right direction. And that’s worth a vote of support, not just a vote for a lesser evil.


  • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.onetoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlWhy did you vote for Biden?
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    I didn’t. I was in California, so my vote was irrelevant anyways. I’ve been living with my mom, so I decided to use it to make a point.

    I was like, “look Mom! I don’t approve of Biden’s hair sniffing, so I’m voting for Jorgenson! You can do the same! That’s an option!”

    It didn’t work. She voted for Trump. (Don’t worry. She was also in California so her vote was also irrelevant). You’d think with her personal history, she’d have been AGAINST serial sexual predators… but I guess his cult of personality was just too strong. She still genuinely believes he “stood up to the globalists.”