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Cake day: June 3rd, 2023

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  • I know nothing about this subject as I’m not personally acquainted with anyone that has to go through it but, as a woman that struggled with weight well through adulthood, to me you look and sound like a woman who’s self conscious about her weight.

    There’s billions of us out there. What worked for me was just try to stop thinking of myself through other people’s eyes and restraint myself for the sake of my health.

    I was 30 when a doctor said, if you don’t stop overeating now, being fat will be your defining characteristic. That opened my eyes, but still today at 40 and with a healthy weight, looking at sweets and pastries is still an internal struggle, a dialog I have with myself over and over. I suspect it’s going to be one for the rest of my life.

    Sorry my comment went on a tangent, but to be honest the being a woman part of your post seemed less important, since it’s clearly just what your are.