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She/Her | EmiRose.org | @emi_rose:matrix.org | Key |
Didn’t even know this was a thing… not surprising, although I wonder how it works.
It’s not that, it is when someone (correctively misgenders) as in they got the right gender and then when they catch a hint you might be trans or see something that points to your AGAB they switch it up and miss gender you. That is what the OP is about and I think this is what the comment was also referring to aswell.
The OP is based on the common occurrence of this for MTF individuals, especially those that have grown out our hair… while someone may gender us correctly from behind, they sometimes (correctively misgender) when you turn around. This can be done with the best intentions in mind, like they thought they misgendered a guy as a girl, so they apologize despite the fact that the apology is in fact an insult at that point.
I remember the first time someone called me miss in public I felt amazing, the second time it happened it crashed when they apologized and said sir. Instead of getting off work that day giddy because I was called miss, I spent the rest of the night disgusted trying to deduce what features made them question their first thought.
I am personally not in a postilion to correct people right now as I am still using my dead name with some people… in the future though I would LOVE to just say “no need to apologize, you got it right the first time.” Keeping in mind that for those that are working retail, it is probably best to politely correct whenever possible.
Now just out right aggressive shit like when I heard some guy behind my back say something along the lines of…
(was going to leave a very upsetting example here but decided to spare you the example, but let’s just say that while I am boymode-ing often it is obvious to many that I am either trans or queer based on my appearance)
…as I was still working I just turned around and while my voice and words were nothing but polite… I am sure my expression did the trick because the dude shut up fast.
(I hate my body (my height being one thing I wish I could change), but in situations like that, an upset expression from a 6’2" person is somewhat more affective)
Gonna Re-Share this resource… PLEASE forward to individuals who may need it! https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2022/05/digital-security-and-privacy-tips-those-involved-abortion-access
Sorry, I like to tell “dad jokes”….
Sometimes he laughs. 🤣
Meanwhile in the UK
Meanwhile they say 12 will come out in 2024. Lol
Me Just Now: “what if a therapist had a ticket system for addressing patient concerns?”
Me Three Seconds Later: “wait, isn’t that just things like BetterHelp?”
Manjaro Users: I could never be bothered to follow the steps for installing on the arch wiki.
Manjaro Users When Something Breaks: Gotta go check the arch wiki & forums.
Not just shortcuts, take longcuts through as well just to see what happens.
Yeah, what would really help bring that down to like maybe 18-19 imo, would be free college. My thought behind that is I and many others wait till we are more financially independent from repressive parents.
Very important to note, also it is important to note that even CIS women have a wide variety in body shapes and sizes. No woman is more or less valid than another. Affirming care is about affirming your inner self for your own sake, and not anyone else.
Fuck those countries and states that require certain procedures before one can change documentation and live a normal life.
If a noob doesn’t want to get into the weeds but still is interested in say the arch community, I would aim them at Manjaro or a more friendly arch distro… If they want to get into the weeds, any distro + customization.
Heavy disagree… why pick between distros when you can build an environment unlike others, that fits your personal needs/wants.
One of the best parts about Linux is this freedom. If you don’t care about this freedom you should probably just be on windows. If you want something different in your Linux, alter it, don’t distro hop.
I found the issue here, you have a piece of malware on your phone called “Fox News”, don’t worry as removing it is super simple.
And Jellyfin has third party music player apps for android and IOS.
Jellyfin’s the way to go IMO, screw Plex and their constant BS.
You give that up that strategy and lean into fixing shit when you put the time in to customize the OS and desktop/window manager experience… at that point you should understand your system well enough to make fixing it easier, and you are also afraid of having to redo some of your customization. That being said, you still should make regular system backups, especially if you are tinkering with the OS experience a lot.
Blahaj not happy