One person might lie to me, but seemingly everyone? Seems more likely that they’re telling the truth. Doesn’t make it any easier to accept and internalize though
One person might lie to me, but seemingly everyone? Seems more likely that they’re telling the truth. Doesn’t make it any easier to accept and internalize though
This is a tricky situation, since I wouldn’t want anyone to rely on external validation for their self-esteem, but here I think it’s OK to lean into the probability that your friends probably aren’t lying to you, and that you might have some internal monologue that’s hurting you.